Should I stay or should I leave? #76
When you are on a growth path in your life, and your relationships don't seem to be keeping up, figuring out whether you should let them go, or let them grow into something new is a huge decision you should not make lightly.
These relationships can be your romantic relationships, they can be family who isn't respecting your boundaries, or friendships that you wonder if you have outgrown. But if you reflect on the 5 questions in this episode, with a desire for higher awareness, you can find the guidance and clarity you need.
In this episode, we discuss:
*Why you feel the need to constantly evaluate your different relationship connections 2:03
*How growth sometimes shows up in your relationships 2:40
*Why people in a Spiritual relationship may be more sensitive to becoming out of resonance with their partners or friends 4:52
*The three aspects of any relationship that need attention 6:04
*Three examples of different types of relationship growth challenges 6:32
*The importance of journaling your process to help open up your awareness and give you a bigger perspective 9:58
*Different ways creating an atmosphere that feels safe can help you open up 11:12
*Considering the needs of a relationship as a separate entity 13:39
*Understanding what is your responsibility and what is not 16:20
*Why some relationships are reflections of past wounds that need to be healed 18:02
*Identifying catalysts for growth and change in your life 21:33
*Understanding the purpose of the relationship you are examining 23:10
** The 5 Relationship Prompts:
1) What does this relationship need to be healthy and healed?
2) What is your responsibility?
3) Reflect on patterns – What unhealed wound could this person be representing?
4) Are you using this as a catalyst in some way?
5) Is the message to let go or grow into something new?
Other Recommendations:
Book - Radical Forgiveness by Colin Tipping
Is there a divine purpose behind everything that happens? If you're willing to embrace that possibility, every aspect of your life can change. This is the theory behind Colin Tipping's revolutionary method for experiencing the freedom, peace, and renewed energy that come with Radical Forgiveness. Radical Forgiveness gives us step-by-step instruction in what begins as a healing process, and culminates in an entirely new way of living in the world.
